Alternatives to Traditional Bridal Showers
November 21, 2008
I’m going to go ahead and say this: I don’t understand the point of bridal showers. I just don’t. It seems to me that it involves silly games (that are insulting to our collective intelligence) and asking people for MORE presents (as if the wedding itself isn’t costly enough for guests). I recognize that some people want an excuse to get girlfriends together to celebrate an engagement in a non-bachelorette-party-type-of-way, so here are some alternatives to the traditional bridal shower.
Actually, before I give this list, I want to preface it by saying — remember what the point is. Traditionally, I suspect it was for older women to give guidance and recipes and house maintenance tips to the younger bride. Now, I assume that it’s to get close females together to celebrate your engagement & upcoming marriage. Bear that in mind.
- A day spa with your girlfriends. You get to spend time with the girls, gossiping and bonding – but you dont have the games. And you don’t need to ask for presents because their presence (and paying for their own spa day) is a gift in and of itself. (Note: Be aware of how much the spa day can cost!)
- Wine tasting.
- Dinner & a movie.
- A day at the beach.
- A sushi themed party. That’s right – make your own sushi, hang out, drink sake, and have a great time!
- Wine tasting (suggestion: rent a bus or shuttle so no one has to drive!)
In term of gifts, be reasonable! Consider asking your friends not to give gifts or just give a piece of advice (in keeping with the tradition). If you’re looking to give something, try something to do or something that will truly be helpful, like a massage or a photo album.